The term “hero”
has become an overused cliché in American history. Most times it is applied to the memory of those
who “acted beyond and above” the call of duty in defense of our country, it’s
values, its ideals, the whole nine yards. Usually the above and beyond act
involves making someone else die in the defense of their values, ideals, etc.,
but we don’t dwell on that for very long.
In recent
years there was a hero in our midst who did not make anyone die or save the
entire world with one mighty act of truth, justice and the American way,
etc. He didn’t cloak himself in a cape, he
couldn’t fly without the assistance of a jet plane engine, but God help us, he
saved a good portion of us from the badness in the world and ourselves. His name was Rogers, Fred Rogers.
The 2018
biopic Won’t You Be My Neighbor filled in who he was, how he came to be the
host of a long-running children’s television show which somehow thrived on
non-commercialism, and the reality of the man inside the zip-up cardigan
sweater. Many of us knew that he was an
ordained minister who didn’t shove the gospel of Jesus down his audience’s
throats even as he taught us - quietly, calmly - how to cope in the world. The documentary showed that his world view
was largely conservative and he wasn’t quite as progressive as some liberals
would have liked him to be, but that’s okay.
Learn the basic values first, then work on any inequities in how they
are applied later.
This year, A
Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood was released as another slice of the Fred
Rogers' story. It’s not a biopic, but it
does show the life, times and mythology of Fred Rogers' persona through the
story of investigative reporter Lloyd Vogel (Matthew Rhys). Vogel is assigned to interview Rogers for a
magazine story at a time when his life is in great dishevel. Yes, he does have a loving wife and beautiful
baby son, but he is dealing with old issues involving a father who abandoned
him and his mother while she suffered terminal cancer.
Somehow Mr.
Rogers picks up on Lloyd’s angst and sets a course to probe deeper. He helps Lloyd see the self-destruction in
his anger and how he himself has the tools to overcome the old feelings. It won’t be a spoiler to reveal that there is
a happy ending to the story. Father and
son, and indeed the whole family, are reunited in time to aid Dad during his final
illness. Even Mr. Rogers shows up with a
fresh baked cherry pie.
Granted, Lloyd
Vogel is a fictionalized version of Atlantic monthly reporter Tom Junod and the
larger story of his familial conflicts may all be make-believe, but the end
results of Mr. Rogers helping people is not a myth. Rogers geared his episodes to small children,
but the lessons reached the adults behind the children sitting in the nation’s
living rooms. The film itself is
presented as a typical episode of Mister Rogers Neighborhood, starting with
and returning to the scale model (HO? N gauge?) of the neighborhood (Pittsburgh)
where the show was produced and New York City where Vogel resides and works. It kept the film grounded in Mr. Rogers'
make-believe roots, even as the values the show taught are very real.
Tom Hanks
was born to play Fred Rogers. Only he
could recreate the calming persona which Mr. Rogers brought to our lives. In this regard Mr. Rogers was routinely seen — and
ridiculed - as being too good to be true.
Hanks’ performance acknowledges this and manages to show that Fred Rogers
was a real human after all.
Real human,
real hero.
The Vogel
story is, obviously, not the only Fred Rogers success story. He reached millions of children every day
with each episode. And how many of those
children were able to use the lessons he taught later in life? Much like George Bailey in It’s A Wonderful Life,
we may never know how many lives Mr. Rogers touched or, more to the point, how
many lives each of us touch.
Some years ago,
a woman was recovering from surgery which, for all intents and purposes, saved
her life. Her husband at the time dealt
with her illness and subsequent recovery by plunging back into his career. The woman felt like she had to face her
recovery alone.
As she
recovered, the woman watched a lot of television and this involved watching episodes
of Mister Rogers Neighborhood. The
episodes made her feel loved, wanted, and special. She wrote to Mr. Rogers to thank him and was
pleasantly surprised to receive a response.
Warrior
Queen has told me that she still has this letter from Mr. Rogers. I hope that she will scan it and post it on
her blog someday.
(Thank you
for reading. Yes, we really need Mister Rogers
now.)
