Once again,
we must acknowledge the holiday season, perhaps at our peril. Once again, we must acknowledge that many
people believe that their cherished holiday is slowly being dismantled by the
alleged “war on Christmas.” And once
again, I feel compelled to either calm (or roil, depending on your point of
view) the waters of controversy.
I had hoped
to lay this subject to rest last year (See War and Christmas 12/24/2011). Alas, Fox News is still being as divisive as
ever and its viewership is convinced that America is getting further and
further away from God because of how we celebrate Christmas today as opposed to
the past. I will cite two cases.
Case One: This
year my mother forwarded an e-mail, which in turn, had been forwarded from a
number of her friends via the Internet. It was a series of photos of Christmas trees. Each photo is captioned with the words “This
is a Christmas tree.” The tree in the
first photo is tastefully decorated, and the trees in the subsequent photos are
more elaborately decorated. As the
decorations become more elaborate, the font in the captions gets larger
and — perhaps this is my imagination — more strident. The e-mail concludes with the statement: “These
are not holiday trees! These are not Hanukkah
trees! THESE ARE CHRISTMAS TREES!”
Case Two: My
wife, as office manager of a small manufacturing firm, answers all of the
incoming phone calls directed to the office’s general mail box. At this time of year, she, like many other
companies in North America, will greet the caller with some sort of phrase in
keeping with the holiday season. She has
chosen to use the words “Happy Holidays” in a sincere tone when she answers the
phone. One of her callers responded in a
tone which she described as arrogant, “IT'S MERRY CHRISTMAS!”
Okay, people,
let’s settle down. Just because some
members of the population choose to use words like “Happy Holidays” or “Seasons
Greetings” instead of “Merry Christmas” doesn’t necessarily make them heathens
intent on nuking the day of Christ’s birth. It is simply intended to acknowledge that there is more than one culture
on God’s good earth, and some of these other cultures don’t believe in Christ
as the savior. It is also an
acknowledgement that these other cultures have their own holidays to celebrate
around the same time of year. For
similar reasons, many municipalities have chosen to call their pine icons in the
town squares holiday trees instead of Christmas trees.
Please allow
me to be the bearer bad news. Those of
us who consider themselves Christians must face this fact: WE DON’T OWN
DECEMBER! In fact, no one cultural or
ethnic group owns this time of the winter solstice. Admittedly,
this is the holiest time of year on the Christian calendar. It is the time of year when Christians
make a special effort to extend the positive qualities of Christ’s teachings to
everyone we meet. I truly believe in the
seasonal mantra, “Peace on Earth, Good Will Toward Men.” Unfortunately I am not convinced that others
within the Christian community want to extend these wishes to members outside
of the community, i.e., non-believers and those who believe in other faiths.
Using the
word “holiday” instead of “Christmas” should not be a cause to be
offended. For those who found it
prudent to bite my wife’s head off when she wished them the best of the season,
or who are outraged because of how trees are named, I must ask this
question: Why are you so insecure about
your religious beliefs? I really don’t
expect an answer, because it’s a question each of us can ask and
answer ourselves. Why should the use of
one word bring warm thoughts and the other raise blood pressures, as long as
the use of either is delivered with the sincerity of a season dedicated to
bringing peace and brotherhood to the world?
Another
question which only each of us can ask ourselves and answer: How would Jesus
react? Would he favor the use of the
word “Christmas” over the word “Holiday”? I believe each of us can answer this because each has
a different viewpoint and interpretation of Christ’s work. I myself like to think that Jesus would
not care if one word is used over the other so long as we respect each other
and treat each other as we would like to be treated. The actions mean more than the words. Maybe I am being a bit naïve, but this is my
belief.
Having said
this, I find that the attitude of my wife’s caller very un-Christian-like. What happened to the humility of
Christians? What happened to the concept
of turning the other cheek? Why do we
have get into each other’s face about our beliefs and so antagonistic about the
beliefs of others?
Okay, so if
Christians want to get outraged over something, then here are a few
suggestions: children are starving; millions live with injustice and social inequality; many others try to survive in countries torn apart by war,
religious strife, or governmental instability. These are conditions that should provoke outrage, not a word choice. My God, if we can’t overlook and forgive a
choice of words, then what hope do we as a civilization have to forgive the
actions of ourselves and others?
Here’s
another perspective. Last week, a young
man in Connecticut reminded all of us that our priorities may be
misplaced. His cruel, brutal act
demonstrated that American citizens have just as much chance of getting killed
by bullets as the chance of hearing the words “Happy Holidays” as a greeting. Given this choice, I would gladly, gratefully
accept “Happy Holidays” and not quibble over word choice.
In the
spirit of extending brotherhood, peace, and justice to all of us I will say:
Merry Christmas AND Happy Holidays…as you wish.
(Thank you
for reading.)